She waited for me , while I forgot her!
Once there was a time when I cared for family, friends and even to the people who didn't reciprocated the same to me. Yet I didn't ever noticed that I was being selfless and doing things that was making people happy not me.
But after getting some serious brain cells I got to know that nothing matters more than your own happiness....
So I started doing things that made me happy and that had me to listen things like "Tu bohot selfish hai " or "Tu sirf khudke baare me sochti hai" Is loving yourself make you selfish??
Giving time to ourselve,understanding our own emotions and saying NO for ourselves is selfish ?
It took me so long to realise that self-love is not selfish it is important for survival in this cruel world and a part of healing too..
And from the day I started listening to myself I didn't feel guilty once in life till now after doing something for my happiness I started understanding myself without giving explanation to anyone.
I also got to know that the one who is judging you for self-love can't see you happy and does not have your back.
If you are doing something for yourself that is not selfish you're just listening to your own heart now .
Self-love being called selfish is normal but we need to pause this!!!!
Listen to your heart it's been silent for too long...